Feeling Lost and Unsure?
There are many incidents in life where you feel lost and not sure. Those life events often strip your identity. As a result, you feel lost and meaningless.
In such a context, I like asking the following questions:
What lesson this incident is trying to teach me?
What is an illusion and what is the reality behind this situation?
Are you always the focal point in every scenario or there is a broader perspective you are missing?
Is proving yourself all there is? Or there are new ideas and possibilities you are forgetting?
When you do this reflective process, you shift your perspective to different levels and context. You stop blaming yourself. Instead, you feel grateful and seek for opportunities and ideas presented by the situation.
It is always your perspective in every situation. Reflect and process it and you would eventually find light end of the dark tunnel.