Emotionless Husband? Do this..!

Are there moments you see your husband emotionless? For example, it is your birthday and you expect him to express his happiness and excitement. But he doesn’t.

Or you have pain in your body and you expect your husband to show empathy, but he doesn’t.

Or you have taken a difficult decision and you expect your husband to be with you emotionally, but he doesn’t.

Don’t worry. You are not alone. From personal experience, men are created to focus on work, responsibility and effort. If they focus on emotions, then they would lose their nature balance.

Did you ever wonder why men are given the right to divorce, return to their wife after divorce, marry 4 women, provide for their families and all the messengers are men?

Don’t misunderstand me. I am not favouring men in any way. But I want to bring your attention to how Allah created men and women.

Women are more emotional and sensitive. They focus on security, safety, peace and comfort. They care a lot of their homes, family and kids. If they and their kids and families are fine, then that’s it.

Men are quite different. They focus on work and responsibilities. If they achieved their tasks and work-related goals, then that means everything for them.

So what to do? Just like what we did in this post here. Increase your awareness about the nature and built-in system of men and women. And you will stop personalizing and blaming yourself or your spouse for the emotional gap you have.