When you start thinking…

I see majority don’t think. They just go on with life to survive.

But when you start thinking, things start to shift. I don’t mean thinking in others’ heads but thinking in your own head and mind.

You realize your individuality and separateness. You find out you never wanted to fit in. It was just the seeking for love externally. You realize your individual needs to be so different from others. The external things like money, fame, attention and meeting others’ and culture expectations are not really in your mental screen.

You find out the picture in your mind to be different and unique. Then you wonder: How can I dare to think so differently? How can I dare to deviate and just live life simply? How can I do that and disappoint others? How can I give up all that I worked so hard for. My life will fall apart.

Such mental thoughts are very normal to appear when you dare to think in your head only. It is like a pull between you and you. There is no other person to challenge but you.

Dare to think differently. Deviate from what the majority think and do. Create your own terms and values. Pick yourself instead of waiting for others to pick you.

As Seth Godin said: There is no rescuer here. No human being will come rescue you. It is only you in the field.